SELF-LOVE FOR WOMEN
Many sensitive, nurturing souls give endlessly to others but forget to pour that same love into themselves. In doing so, they slowly abandon their own needs and dreams, leaving them feeling depleted, frustrated, and wondering where they went missing in their own lives.
This book is an invitation to come home to yourself again — to remember, restore, and reclaim the love that was always meant for you too.
This is one of those Top 10 Books you need in hardcover for reference --- right in between Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance and The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People. It should be a mandatory class you go through at age 21 right after recovering from the celebratory hangover of legal age drinking as an introduction to true adulting. Nicole tackles the why we are driven in our seemingly random yet self-sabotaging behaviors and how to – with loving kindness – get on the right path. She writes with clarity, compassion and gives the reader a gentle nudge to begin healing our heart and soul right now. A must read!
~ Laura K.
Stop Abandoning Yourself - You’re Not Here to Be Everything for Everyone Else
It’s impossible to keep pouring from an empty cup; to be everything for everyone, hold it all together, and keep sacrificing your own heart just to feel worthy of love. You can’t raise conscious children, build meaningful work, tend to aging parents, nourish a partnership, and still expect to feel whole when you keep leaving yourself behind.
Once you understand that real self-love isn’t selfish, but sacred, you begin to rewrite the story. I’m not just a spiritual guide and awakening mentor; I’m living proof that when you remember who you are, you stop betraying yourself to keep the peace.
In this book, I’ll guide you back to yourself — to release the old habit of self-neglect. Through soul-deep shifts you will reconnect with your inner child, release old patterns of self-betrayal, and embody the love you’ve always deserved. It’s time to come home to you.
You will learn how to
1. stop abandoning yourself — and finally give yourself the same love, care, and devotion you’ve poured into everyone else.
2. recognize and release old patterns of people-pleasing, self-neglect, and silent sacrifice.
3. listen to the quiet voice within — and trust their own truth, needs, and desires without guilt or shame.
4. reconnect with their inner child — and gently heal the roots of unworthiness and self-doubt.
5. set loving, clear boundaries — and protect their energy without feeling selfish or afraid of disappointing others.
6. cultivate a daily practice of true self-love — that goes beyond bubble baths and surface-level “self-care.”
7. balance giving and receiving — allowing themselves to be nurtured, supported, and seen just as much as they support others.
8. remember who they really are — whole, worthy, and unconditionally lovable, exactly as they are.
